Yes, sadly we think kids are shunned because of behavior problems, or being doofuses...but when the truth is told, blame it on wood that stinks.
All wood dries differently, but all wood benefits from being split...so stop procrastinating and get that brother-in-law of yours over and tell him to get all that ash split so you can use it sooner.
I believe ash doesn't need as much dry-time to work well in most stoves, a bit more for fireplaces which requires a very dry wood to burn hot enough to prevent the dreaded build up of you know what....
Usually, according to my wood cutter guy, who sells vast quantities of wood for wood burning people (a breed of their own....) ash, if split and dried for 3 months, is good to go. Oak and hickory require longer drying times, and cherry can dry in the same time as ash. Since ash has been decimated in my neck of the woods (thanks to globalization of cheap Asian products being imported complete with nasty critters ready to devour everything they encounter) lots of folks are burning ash these days, including me. I lost one that was huge of perhaps 70 inch diameter variety, and what a beautiful piece of wood it was...absolutely furniture grade material. It has a very straight grain, and is quality wood for tables and other larger pieces.<font color="ff0000">•</font><font color="ff0000">•</font><font color="ff0000">•</font><font color="ff0000">•</font> was truly a shame to cut it up and split the wood...which I am still working on since spring.
Ash burns very well, and won't cause your kids to be spurned by their playmates.