Very good luck! I know this all to well, my boys were multiple time state qualifiers and placers in Ohio. I gave up snowmobiling for 10 years for wrestling, would do it again.
I will admit that when my daughter asked to join the high school boys wrestling team I was completely against it. I gave her 2 weeks, fast forward to Senior year. Nationally Ranked, 3X All American. It's taken us to Colorado Springs, Las Vegas, Indianapolis, Des Moines, Fargo. Multiple full ride scholarship offers. This was not on my radar 3 and a half years ago.
I have helped other wrestlers get to meets, have watched coaches who don't know my daughter step into her corner when no coach with her at Regional and National events. She has found friends for life. The kind you really want them to find.
Her high school coach, and assistant coach deserve so much credit. They never told her no. Never said your just a girl, have treated her like 1 of the guys and worked her like a dog. She took every bruise and kept on taking more. The guys on the team instead of ignoring her decided she was their little sister and if she was going to survive she needed to know how to beat the guys.
I heard years ago someone say wrestling is one big family. I didn't believe them, I was wrong.