sledneck, I've just read the post for the first time and I can honestly say "why didn't I read it sooner?" I truly am saddened by what's transpired lately for you and your family.. I do agree that the last little rebound was to "make good" with the big guy and family...reading your summation just above my post sounds like the typical story.. We all get smarter when we get older... I lost my grandfather in April of 1991 to a major stroke.. I dread the day I have be in your shoes but I hope I'm as brave as you were.. Take care of Mom, and make sure you take time to check on yourself too. We have done a fair amount of greiving in the past here also as my wife, now 31, lost her mother when she was 44 and her father when he was 41.. We all should take a moment and enjoy each and every day for what it gives us no matter how much or how little..
Stay in touch..
m8man