Thank you Nora, I have always enjoyed reading the journal entries, getting a peek into the man him self's mind, thoughts, feelings and sharing bits and pieces of his personal and family life and now you and Gracie continuing that, I think it was Johns willingness to share his personal side with us that cemented that family like feeling this site has. Unfortunately there is no handbook for coping or healing, there is no right or wrong way or any specific amount of time needed or allowed for it either. Part of the healing process is sharing and remembering and yes sometimes it may bring tears or laughter its important to share your memories and thoughts with family and friends. I'm pretty sure I can safely say that all of us here want to be and consider ourselves your extended family. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, your experiences and your memories and thank you and all the behind the scene staff for keeping this site going.