Thanks for all the info. It is helpful.
As far as what we like to ride, we're essentially midwest trail riders that wanted to go out West to ride off-trail. So the two times we went, we went to Togwotee as it seems to be THE all-around best spot to go for off-trail riding, at least from what I've read on this site. We didn't consider the snowies, even though it is quite a bit closer, because I've read on here and elsewhere that you have to know where you are going, and that wind is frequently an issue, conditions change quickly, etc. We didn't and probably wouldn't consider Cooke right now because it seems to be too extreme for our riding. Just don't want to mess with the increased avalanche risks, etc., and none of us are extreme riders. The last time we went, we rode for 4 days - the 1st and 3rd with Lefty as a guide and the 2nd and 4th on our own. That worked out really well for us, as the days we rode with Lefty we learned a ton and experienced a ton, all while riding areas we would never do on our own. But it was nice to mix in a couple more leisurely days were we got to do our own exploring. Those were great days also.
So, to answer jmom's questions, we are intermediate off-trail riders AT BEST (probably closer to beginner), and we enjoy learning new skills as well as exploring. We wouldn't mind riding 15-20 miles to get to the playgrounds, as long as it isn't 3 ft moguls the whole way. Amenities such as food and bars are way down the list for us. As long as we can enjoy a few drinks at the end of the night, we are happy. The two times we rode the Tog area, we stayed at Turpin Meadow to save some $, although we ended up riding with guides from Tog the 2nd trip anyway. Sled rental would be required, as we all currently own trail sleds. And cost is a consideration, although taking a trip that far from home and renting sleds is going to be a certain amount of money no matter what, so I wouldn't want to ruin the trip to try to save $100.
It will probably be 2 seasons from now before the next trip West, but I'm interested in learning all I can about the various locations.