How does someone get started with tobacco?
Although I grew up "in a blue cloud", with my dad smoking 2 packs o' Camels a day, I never noticed it until after he quit, at age 49. He lost countless $20.00 bets (That was quite a bunch o' money in the early 1950s!) with his buds, who all "quit" and bet on who would fall off the wagon first. He finally quit "cold turkey" in 1956, after a heart attack and two weeks in the hospital, on supplemental oxygen most of the time. The bad news: Even having quit at age 49, thirty years later dad developed emphysema, and suffered greatly with that, routinely gasping for breath at the slightest exertion; he then needed supplemental oxygen daily. I'm not sure whether that lack of oxygen to the brain was in any way a cause of the senile dementia that he suffered in his last few years. What a nasty price to pay!
As for myself, I honestly do not understand how someone gets started.
Yes, I tried it myself, with the neighbor kid behind their garage, maybe at age 11 or so. That was my first and last experiment. My considered opinion at the time: "Yuck! why would anyone want to suck that foul sh!t?" I guess I wasn't sufficiently affected by "peer pressure" in that matter. (In other ways, other issues, perhaps, but certainly not for smoking.) I wish I understood. Surely no-one actually considered their first experiment "pleasurable"?!
In any event, I wish y'all success in conquering the beast, in any way possible, and as soon as possible!