Sad Day...

[revman]

Had to put our family's Yellow Lab, Kody, down yesterday. He developed bone cancer in his shoulder earlier this fall. We managed to keep him around pain-free for an additional 3 months after the initial detection of it, but I said the minute I saw him suffer, I would put an end to it. I stayed by his side the whole time...he left me hearing what a good boy he was.

My wife works in her home office, and he was the "office dog." She had a hard time today without him next to her office chair. He wouldn't leave her side.

I think we'll wait until spring to think about getting another. I don't think I can replace Kody, but hope to make some new memories soon.

Rest well, Kodyboy!

 

[Admin]

So sad, but hang in there. Time does heal.

Sounds like you made his final moments what every dog should get. Peace, loving and gratitude for all he did.

Take care.

-John

 

[chadlyt]

Sorry to hear the bad news, it's always hard. My yellow lab Tucker had cancer in his shoulder also and it has been almost two years since we had to put the suffering to an end. They can't be replaced, and it took me over a year to get another pup, but new memories are great also.

 

[miked]

Today or tomorrow, I'm going to be doing the same to my cat. She's been my bud for 12 years, and I've nursed her through kidney disease for the past 7. Right now, the only strength she has has been to walk over to me and curl into my arms. I've been sleeping on the floor with her for the past three nights. This sucks. Combined with the lack of snow...I am not a happy camper these days. I prefer to think of days like this picture...

 

[mezz]

Many of us on this site know what you & your wife are feeling right now. It's not easy, they are part of the "family" in every sense of the word. You did the right thing, which is not an easy thing to do, but absolutely the right thing. Time does heal the wound & the fond memories last forever. Take it easy.-Mezz

 

[jeepbob47]

What a handsome boy. He is in puppy heaven running around. Sorry about your loss.

 

[t_man]

Couldn't say it better than Mezz did, so just know another of us is thinking of you and your wife. My condolences.

 

[techsledder]

I stayed by his side the whole time...he left me hearing what a good boy he was.

That's exactly what he needed to hear, my friend. So sorry for your loss. I know what it's like and try to remember the good times with him!

 

[Cat_man]

Sorry for your loss Rev. These great creatures we know as animals make their way into our hearts, family, and everyday lives. Never an easy decision, but like many have already said, you made the right decision. Keep those memories close, you will never forget him!

 

[skiroule]

This is such a hard thing. It takes courage and compassion to do the right thing. Every time I've been in this situation it's been heartbreaking but I always ask myself "Did I give them the best possible home?" Being able to answer "Yes" seems to help. From your post, you could defiinitely answer the same.

 

[yamahauler]

Sorry to hear Rev: It sounds like you treated him well and I'm sure he feels the same.

Miked: Sorry to hear about your kitty.

 

[nytro_rtx]

Rev. Sorry to hear but you did the right thing. Our Malimute had cancer in her hips and our Husky had bad back, we did the same thing and kept them comfortable as long as we could but then had to make the same decision. Hardest decision I've had to make. Hang in there it will get better.

Miked, Sorry for your loss also.

 

[mrsrunningbear]

So so hard, peace be with you and your wife revman and the same for you Miked peace be with you

 

[lenny]

I hear bro, I've lost a few over the years and it hurts. Dogs have such personalities and all are different like people and the attachment can be strong. Sorry for your loss, hang in there!!!!

 

[racerx]

Can't say anything different than what has already been said. Really sorry for your loss but I know he won't be alone as my pup is up there always looking for friends to play with as I'm sure others are there too.

 

[lvr1000]

Sorry to hear of the lose of a love one.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

( http://rainbowsbridge.com/poem.htm )

 

[ezra]

sad day I honestly have to chock back the sadness just reading about it and the posts that follow.it is so hard to have to say goodbye to a family member.

 

[LoveMyDobe]

I just hate waking up and reading this kind of thing first thing in the morning, but I know you needed to tell this to all us animal lovers as we understand too well what has happened to you and your family.
I can't think of anything more that can ease your pain. I also had a past Dobe with bone cancer in his shoulder. Poor guy's leg swelled up and he drug it around for days acting like he wasn't in pain. We had to make the decission for him and sent him to God to heal. IT JUST SUCKS, SUCKS SUCKS. But we can't be selffish.
Remember, he is in a better place and no longer in pain. He is looking down at you and telling you it is alright now.
You can never replace him, keep the memories close in your heart. Your next pup will fill the void, but do it when you are ready. Don't feel quilty about adopting another. I just went thru this and the "new kid" did save my soul and sanity.
Again, so sorry for your loss.

 

[Team Elkhorn]

Sorry revman and miked, I hesitate to reply to these threads because I can never think of anything else to say that hasn't already been said. But we've all been there and know how you feel. Its sweet but sad, that our pets bring so much happiness but live such short lives.

 

[snowbuff]

So sorry for your loss. It is hard to hold back the emotion every time I read one of these posts. Both mine are 8.5 years old, and I too will have to do this some day. The idea just hurts. Take care and God bless.