I will say this about marriage. If you have drama in a relationship now, it's not going to change, at least from my personal experience. My first marriage was exactly that, DRAMA. Stuck it out for 13 years, then it came to an end. For me & my young daughters at the time, it was rough, but in the grand scheme of things it was the best thing that could have happened for the 3 of us. I have been happily married since for 20 years. Don't get me wrong, it hasn't all been roses, it takes a bit of effort, kindness & understanding from both parties to make it work. I joked about marriage being a "wonderful institution" cause sometimes things can drive you a little crazy, but, when you work through the issues that can occur & do it together, it just further bonds the relationship. I wouldn't have it any other way. -Mezz