Lots of great info and here's my 5 cents (adjusted for the current conditions).
IMO, I would try to hold out the best you can under the current conditions. I have a place up north. I've gotten 2 solicitations so far in the mail from people looking for someone interested in selling. No way we are....
Now, on to my suggestions. First off.... look at areas where you and your wife might possibly be interested in having a place. One thing that we wanted was to be close to a good size city, but still far enough away. Our place is 18 miles from Gaylord, Michigan. We have the convenience of a Walmart, Meijers, Lowes, Home Depot, other places when we need things, but the main thing is a hospital. Also if you want to go out for the night to say a movie or bar they are available.
Once you narrow it down to a few areas, put in a day or two to just go out to them and drive around checking things out. Not saying that a realtor is bad, but stop in somewhere to have say lunch, talk to the people in the area and see if they might know of places for sale. When we was looking, I would get on real estate sites, jot down listings that I was interested in, my wife and I would then make a day trip out of it. We wanted to be around a 3 hour drive one way. We drove around to a bunch of different areas, but wanted to stay close to Gaylord for the reasons I mentioned above. The funny thing is it seemed as if when we headed back downstate our final drive was around a certain lake. We looked at so many places that it got to the point that we just wanted something and be done with it. One day I found a listing in the area and jotted down a couple more to look at. Headed up the next day to meet the realtor. The place wasn't really want we wanted but it was doable and could be really nice once we put some time and $$ into it. So we went though it, spending about 3 hours there. We decided to make an offer, that's when the realtor threw a curve ball, they already had an offer on it, why couldn't they of told us beforehand. Not wanting to get into a bidding war, we decided to not make one. We left and drove around the lake getting ready to head back downstate. There was this house (6 year old build) that looked vacant every time we when though there. I don't know how it happened but on this day the elderly people across the street was out. We stopped and asked about the house. They gave us the owners name and number. We called him and it just happened that he lived on the lake. He came over showed us the house. We fell in love with it as soon as we saw the rest of the house. I fell in love with the garage....LOL We decided right then and there we wanted to buy it. He gave us a price and we accepted. But when the bank had it appraised it came 6k under what he asked. He said that he would accept that and it's ours, been going on 10 years now. We're no on the lake, but I can look right out my big living room window and see it. Best part is we are between 2 roads, one of which is maintained by the county so it's always plowed during the winter, also less property taxes. We made friends with the people across the street and use their waterfront property for our dock and Sparks.
I guess I should say keep looking, you and your wife will know when you find that perfect place. Just don't jump at getting a place to have one and don't go overboard with the price.